Trust

Trust...is it important?   is trust the deal breaker for any relationship?

Yes! in my opinion any relationship, whether friendship, business, dating or  marriage, trust is a crucial part.  If you cannot trust a friend or business partner or colleague, then what good is that?
same goes for a spouse... what good is a relationship without trust? without trust there is no structure, if your always wondering who is that person they are talking to on the phone with....who is that texting...who's emailing....why are they friends on Facebook....staying in a relationship with no trust is only damaging to your own well being...

I'm not saying that trust cannot be regained but its a long challenging process that sometimes causes more hurt then good and is not guaranteed to have results...

Trust building doesn't always succeed...If you find yourself two maybe three years down the road and you still feel like your on the trust building stage then maybe its time to throw in the towel...

If you cannot trust them....then its time to wash your hands of them